4 Habits To Form To Remember That Nothing Meant For You Can Be Taken Away

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    July 15, 2018
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Nothing meant for you can be taken away

“What’s meant for you will never miss you, and that which misses you was never meant for you.” The writer of this quote is unknown. However, I am a big believer of these words. Nothing meant for you can be taken away. Let me explain further.

I have heard some people say that they prefer to do things in private so that other people won’t be able to attack it. Why? What are you really afraid of? Are you afraid that they are able to destroy it? Maybe.

I have another suggestion. Put everything out in the open. This doesn’t mean that you should constantly talk about what you will achieve. Wait. Have patience. Work hard. Work in private. But, be ready to talk about everything openly. Nothing that has a proper foundation will fall to the ground no matter who tries to attack it. It is stronger when it is attacked, yet it still thrives. No is able to steal the blessings that are meant for you and that you have worked hard for. If they are, then you probably don’t even want it because those weren’t your blessings in the first place. What is real will stand no matter who hopes that it will crumble.

Here are 4 habits to form to remember that nothing meant for you can be taken away:

1. Work Harder.

Don’t worry about what other people say regarding your projects. Use that energy to work harder instead of paying attention to the negative energy.

2. Ignore Anything That Isn’t Constructive Criticism.

Many people will have something to say about what you are doing. However, ignore anything that isn’t constructive criticism. Only listen to the criticism that will help you better your work. Don’t listen to what every single person has to say. Not everyone has good intentions.

3. Pay Attention To The People Around You.

If you can’t speak to the people around you and if they aren’t happy for your success, then why are they even around you? If you have to hide your goals from those around you, then maybe you should surround yourself with other people.

4. Know That Anything With A Solid Foundation Will Not Crumble.

Work on planting the roots of anything that you are creating securely so no outside force can move them.

Margaritë Camaj

Margaritë has a very unique story. She has Albanian roots, so she identifies with the struggles of immigrants while she simultaneously is a Bronx, New York City native. She is an Author, publishing 14 works of literature. In addition to her multitalented creative side, she is also a Tri-State (NY, NJ, CT) Attorney. However, she often finds a way to tie the two together. Her love for writing knows no bounds.

           

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One thought on “4 Habits To Form To Remember That Nothing Meant For You Can Be Taken Away

  1. Hi,
    This was a very interesting read. However, may you please elaborate on what you mean by creating a solid foundation?
    Kind regards,
    Kayla

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