1. Don’t think about the past 

Everything that lies behind us is small matters, you’ll learn that in time, or you already know it’s true. And the future is where we can find success, the future is where success lies. Only your past will make you stop thinking about the future, in this case, it will stop you from achieving your goals. Stopping you from chasing your dreams, now who wants that? Let’s just say, you can’t move forward when you live in the past.

2. Stop dwelling on problems or holding grudges

It’s fine if you think every now and then about your past or the mistakes that you have made. But don’t make it a daily routine or a habit. It’s something you should never focus on.  You will create and prolong negative emotions and stress constantly. This will stop you from your performances. High emotional intelligent people focus on solutions. And not holding grudges.

3. There’s no perfection so don’t seek  for perfection 

Now there’s a lot of people who don’t do what they want to do, simply because they are afraid it’s not going to be perfect. Well, it is never going to perfect, how about that? Keep this in mind, it will NEVER be perfect. Nothing will! So don’t strive for perfection, you’ll just waste your time. Being successful is enjoying every achievement.

4. Drop the negative people

When we said nothing is perfect, that means no one is perfect either, everyone can be complaining sometimes. But when complaining is all a  person can do, you will end up living the same negative energy. These kind of people are toxic, just stay away from them. For instant people who judge are most negative people, so take a moment and think of who is being judgemental around you all the time? Now the only thing you have to do, stay away from them.  And of course, it’s normal to listen to people who complain because we don’t want to seem insensitive or impolite. Just avoid getting surrounded by these people

5.  Say no without explaining yourself

This is one thing we can all learn to get better at.. Saying “No” more often. We always say yes just to avoid explaining ourselves. But what about just saying no and not more? After all, they should understand enough by just a “No” because we are the busy women right? Saying ‘no’ to a new commitment honors your existing commitments and gives you the opportunity to successfully fulfill them.